In life we are given only one chance to live. Only when something intervenes do we get a second chance. Some people call this denying fate or destiny others, say it wasn't your time, I fell that in a small way we alter our own future when we escape death or whatever you want to call it. Not say final destination is going to happen or something like that more like you and the people around you change ether for a short period of time so brief you don't really notice it, or for a life time. OK now i know this is beginning to sound a little depressing but bear with me a minute. When an accident strikes you really "REALLY" will know who your friends are. Those people who stood by you regardless of what you look-like at the moment, the people that stand by your side regardless if it is your fault or not, or who truly loves you (family or friend). I found out that not everything is what it seams and for some reason or another for the longest time it was so, hard for me to see it. Now everyday it hits me like a brick wall coming down with the force of Christ. Not only in my life but, in others too for example today there was a couple that entered a electronics's store (will not say the name of the store) and they were arguing, ok yes this is typical for most American couples but, it is what happen after wards that made me believe that they really loved each other. The man tripped and she helped him up, ok that is what any righteous minded person would do right. But, it is what happened after wards after helping the gentlemen up she hugged him. (NOW THE RANDOM SIGHS OF AWW) But, here is what got me she seem to completely forget why she was mad once he almost got hurt and tho they and everyone around shared a good laugh they seemed happy for what i noticed and i felt good inside like really good. This is only a good example out of the hundreds of bad ones another one is this older heavier set woman and her tiny anorexic husband (please for Christ sake women do not be this one) were at a restaurant the gentleman ordered a meal from the menu while the lady ordered the buffet ok that is fine (before you say anything i do not hate larger people) but, what got me was this the man ate all his food and went for the dinner rolls in the basket in the middle of the table the woman stabbed him with a fork. OK what the fuck, why they are there for you to share she than said and i will quote "Ass, hole you don't need to eat your dying anyways so why does a wasteful piece of shit like you need even one of MY rolls." Wow every time i think of that i get pissed off at how fucked up people treat each other especially when you are suppose to be in love. But, because of my kind nature, I got taken advantage of, a lot when i was younger and because i am so loving i tend to put my heart in situations where it will get broken. I believe everyone on the planet deserves a second chance but, hear is a secret never ever give the person you love all your heart once you do it is hard to pull out if it goes bad, and if the other one is the one doing it it hurts a million times more. Love is a beautiful thing but, is also the most deadly.

"Tho everyone deserves a second chance find out what you want out of life before you decide to give him or her it that way you can't get hurt twice" ~Jin

"Never give him or her all your heart tho you may love the person there is always that chance it will go sour and since you have no clue to what is going on in their head it is best to be prepared just in case would you want your whole heart broken or Just a piece. ~Jin

"But remember one more thing if you think that it is impossible to get a date, well it is if you don't try, if you stand out side the fire you'll never get burned, but never get to experience what might be waiting for you on the other side" ~Jin